Success is not a mystery that is not revealed. Even if a person has to do a thing, other people certainly can do it too. We may not aspire so high as Datuk Azhar Mansor who sail in the high seas alone or as Datuk Abdul Malek who swam across the English Channel, or as Shalin Zulkifli, who became the queen of country bowling or as Sui Lin Yap who got 16A in his SPM.
But let just comfortable with their usual until there is nothing we can be proud of or to be told to our children later. At least, if we as workers then strive to be excellent employees to receive awards from employers. If we were an entrepreneur build for our business empire that can be inherited by offspring. If we as a student learn and strive to reach the highest level.
Success may be defined as the achievement of a goal or meet the targets set by him. Thus success is a subjective and relative forms with the individual. For an entrepreneur, earning RM10, 000 per month, is for the initial target and for which it is a success. But RM10, 000 it could be a failure for the entrepreneur is typically able to generate income of RM50, 000 per month. When we arrived to set goals we begin to feel comfortable. After a while we feel there is nothing more challenging at that level. If we continue to be in the comfort zone then sooner or later we will fail because others are more advanced. Therefore it was necessary for us after reaching a target, then challenge yourself to the extent that in turn developed. Here are some steps you can take to challenge yourself to move forward in life.
1. Place Target High
When a goal is achieved, then please do continue to set new goals even higher. For example, once as a student number that we can often last in the class then start swinging the goal to put our name in the 10 best students. Challenge yourself to make a conscious effort to achieve the target. If one day we managed to make it happen, then started to put the new target to be the number one student in turn. If we are an entrepreneur then put the target to expand our business to all corners of the state is not just a local deal only. If the target is achieved, challenge yourself with a new target to expand to the whole country and not possible after it reaches the international level. This ambitious target is always making us look ahead. As a result, without realizing we are becoming more advanced in the field that we are indulging.
2. Jealousy With Success of Others
See them more successful than us. If someone else could we do too. To prosper we must be jealous of the success of others and challenge ourselves to do more than others. If we do not know how to do it then learn from those who have succeeded. Open your mouth and ask. Do not just keep quiet because nothing happens if we do not act. Read success stories of others, pondering how they face the challenges and difficulties along the twists and turns prior to their name famous. Jealousy by the success of others must be planted to form a healthy competition rather than jealousy that led to hatred and envy makes us take bad steps dropping our league.
This jealousy should arise more so when they are weaker, younger, and less effort than we are able to achieve a remarkable achievement.
Brother Abdul Halim, a crippled leg and hand, but can learn in university, out as an accountant, open their own company and have received awards from the PM of Malaysia. Cemburukah not we?
3. Avoid From Fast Attitude SATISFIED
Quickly satisfied attitude is a disease that prevents us to succeed. When we are earning RM10, 000 a month we started to feel comfortable and we said, "I ni about oklah, how cut very people who earn five figures a month. At least there were already home for yourself how many more people can not afford homes. I'm okay about this ... ". Thus satisfied attitude that makes us stop to try and create greater success. Why do not we take the example of people who are more successful than us? Why always compare ourselves with those who are weak and less of us? Bandinglah with those who are more successful, which owns its own building, which is to become a millionaire, a luxury car, which has houses for rent and so then then challenged that we have yet to OK! So, do not yet satisfied with our achievements, because every time we succeed then we certainly can go even further.
4. Question Yourself With Positive Questions
To succeed, the question yourself with positive questions. For example, the following questions only lead us to feel weak and helpless:
Why do I fail?
Why do I always unfortunate fate?
Why do people all do not like me?
I want to be alright with this?
Instead the following questions will be making us think, challenge yourself and allow us to gather the strength to overcome every obstacle.
What do not I do it again?
How am I going to increase my income 20% next month?
What are the advantages of myself that I have not unloaded yet?
Where am I going to get the knowledge and skills to excel in this field?
Who can help me?
So we do not succeed because asking the wrong questions to ourselves. Therefore be careful with a conscience. Value is exactly the question that we ask of our hearts is it will challenge us to move forward or just weaken us.
5. Increase the 'Standard' You
To succeed, we have to challenge ourselves to raise 'standards' we. For example, we said ourselves that no 'standard'lah forever a clerk, five years from now must want to be a manager anyway. No 'standard' is for ever working with people, 10 years from now must be the boss anyway. No 'standard' is ever able to score a 'C', 3 months from now I should be able to 'A' anyway. No 'standard' is busy carrying Japanese car, 5 years from now I must want to bring the German car. No 'standard' is for homeless terrace only, 10 years from now I must be going there bungalow house.
The purpose is not to show off or to pride but to make us want to work harder to meet the demands of our life according to the 'standard' new. Furthermore we do not utter those words to others but we dedicate these words to yourself only as a form of challenge.
It should be noted that we can only live in the 'standard' higher only after we successfully realize the income that can accommodate the 'standard' form.
In fact, Islam itself does not prevent his people to live comfortably when have the ability. As long as it does not prevent us comfort to continue to make life as a form of worship increase our faith and our piety. Therefore, please do continue to challenge themselves to succeed in life.
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